“The Kindness of Strangers”
These days I can’t seem to shake the lyrics “You can always depend on the kindness of strangers…” out of my head. The line is from a Streetcar Named Desire but the lyric is from The Simpsons’s musical version of the Tennessee Williams play… Because I, like most red-blooded americanized kids out there, have picked up most of my important cultural education from The Simpsons.
Anyway, the reason I can’t seem to shake the line is because lately I’ve been putting a lot of faith in that kindness of strangers and so far it’s been going really well… Which comes as a bit of a surprise to a crusty cynical curmugeon like myself. I didn’t spend nearly half a decade by myself animating Minushi because I have a lot of faith in other people, know what I mean?
But lo and behold the universe has yet a new curve ball to send my way (just to mess with my head, I’m sure) in the form of kindness. The kindness that seems to be eagerly bestrowed upon the independent filmmaker by those he calls on for support.
Seriously, I have yet to be disappointed by anyone I’ve gone to with hat in hands, be it to ask for locations, time, talent, back-muscles - what can I say? I’m not sure why I’m surprised; I’d love to help me out. I guess I just didn’t expect such positivity from people sight unseen. It’s led me to question the nature of this kindness… I know, I know, why look a gift-horse in the mouth? Crusty cynical curmugeon, remember?
But wait now, what I’ve come up with isn’t so bad: I think people just generally want to be a part of “the movies” - even little independent ones. And not literally in the movie… I think people just like movies (duh!) and just want to see them succeed.
So - I don’t know - I guess what I’m saying is: Just ask. It’s become my motto anyway. Need help with your project? Just ask.
Cue music!
“You can always depend on the kindness of strangers…
To pluck up your spirits, and shield you from dangers…
Now here’s a tip from Blanche you won’t regret…
A stranger’s just a friend you haven’t met…
You haven’t met…
STREETCAR!”